Enjoy, but however him Gu absolutely at everybody besides, let everybody lose confidence to him.
There is some of undesirable adolescent now, although family circumstances is very rich, but acquire bad habit however, it is fun with theft, make the evil issue that homicide robs then, not only the happiness that harmed others, also destroyed oneself career. Bad habit as narcotic, be in imperceptible in the soul that can corrode us, nibble the our life, happiness that destroys us, how can not dread of Buddhist monastic discipline is careful!
2, superstition controls a destiny
In our feeling, superstition is like the child that is east, actually the west also has their belief. A kind of the west is popular ethos, if today is 13 days of words that are on Friday, had better not go out work, because 13 ominous, Friday is black on Friday, originally brushstroke exceedingly meaning wants negotiation, because superstition is afraid of,lost auspicious chance, missed precious opportunity for nothing.
Speak of ineffable belief, the society in us is to see more more. For example builds a house to build tower, cannot have 4 buildings, because 4 mix dead unisonant, live a bearer cultivate uneasiness, have surely fierce evil spirit. Hotel lives outside going out, avoid 9 rooms, because 9 associate easily reach become warped to death. Superstition affects our life aspect is far-reaching more: Some people do what thing to want to see date just be at ease, what more or less deserve credit do this have again actually? The marriage of some people also has seen date, 1000 carried 100 chosen lucky day to also do not divorce? The child is born, should look for a fortune-telling gentleman to calculate fortune-telling to have multiple? Always want in front back gold, from the back ability back silver is at ease. If the person of the divinatory symbols on fortune-telling can replace others fortune-telling, so his own destiny how Where is measureestimate? Some people spend the New Year sweep the floor cannot be swept outside and should sweep inside face, because be afraid of greatly,sweep money went out. Someone says the woman is pregnant cannot read aloud ” Vajracchedika-sutra ” , because the power of King Kong is too great, meeting fetal rush bad. Actually ” Vajracchedika-sutra ” therefore kind be like canon, not only won’t harm fetal, song is held during be pregnant this has wisdom of good prenatal education, growth via can letting dot instead. Folk is popular a kind of strange thing, the daughter died, memorial tablet can marry a person however, an open and aboveboard youth, original and OK formal wedding, denounce a memorial tablet to come back to make offerings to however. If superstitious behavior is same a rope, bind our hands or feet rise, cannot move. If superstitious behavior is same a black clouds, make our life cheated a shadow, cannot see the light from the gender. A lot of this no-no superstition, those who affect our destiny is gigantic see one spot.
3, affection reads aloud control destiny
The officer Li Wenbin that newspaper publishs rural area of Taipei county Lu Zhou and a woman of stage name high-ranked imperial concubine, because emotive dispute is offended,come out a lawsuit, not only oneself official career got affect, familial also feel appearance does not have light. In our lifetime, be involved the effect that stumble by feeling the deepest. Some are factitious affection is not great and of finish future can be found everywhere, some families hide charming for house of gold of the other side or red apricot gives a wall and happiness theres is no lack of undonely its exemple, if feeling is handled undeserved, unfortunate destiny with respect to very closely associated with each other following one by one.
The plead for mercy for sb on classics does not give birth to Suo mother-in-law again, some people struggle to give the fetters and handcuffs with an agile reins, but cannot cast off affection however of silk pester, right perhaps familial close affection, right perhaps the friend’s friendship, right perhaps male and female love, clinging do not put, those who live in anguish is sloughy in. Want to absolve emotive to manacle, must the Li Jian of hold wisdom, the mind with open-minded bosom, control emotion, and do not control for emotional place.
4, influence controls a destiny
Influence also is one of element that control our destiny, after people often had money, more the pursuit of draw water draw water at influence, alleged and rich have situation with might doubled, but influence degenerates easily however our pure nature, the person that how many has is in Chi the 3 domestic precious that Na Baogui lost in drinking the power and influence of 4, some people are full this taste that tea life cannot savor however after the flavor that tasted influence. Influence affects the force of our life, cannot say not tremendous.
About commanding the influence of our destiny, I divide into following a few kinds will explain:
1, religious authority: Some people no matter marriage funeral is festival ask the god asks predict, consult a good fortune of misfortune of good or ill luck to just dare be at ease to deities go doing. The thing does not distribute stand or fall, the person no matter good and evil, want deities to approbate only wear with respect to according to do, only the directive of deities is from, oneself judge dispute without wisdom, yang Lai deities makes a stand for him. Not ask like this kind the common people asks deities, the slave that oneself life entrust gives deities dictate and oneself become deities readily however, it is kind of madness really. The view of according to buddhism, deity also is unavoidable metempsychosis of cause and effect, how force operates our destiny?
2, political power: Political power is a vast power that affects masses destiny. Turn over experience history, the life treats the common people of the common people of the world and in power of Yu Yongjun of preserve at all costs at holy king, its difference is prep before character. Watch instead contemporary, unripe existence in the national society of open, democratic, progress, compared with those a country is annexed at violence, extremely the world of dark of authority, dense is purgatorial the people in, it is the happiness of what kind.
3, close affection: The family member’s encouragement can increase the child’s power, make he moves toward successful path, but the obstacle that kisses the package of affection to also can become the child to be begged occasionally. I go to cloth of Peng Huhong law teaching 30 years ago, one leaves off his post the alcalde’s niece, 8 years old seventeen, youthful appearance is beautiful, talent is permeated with, appearance oratorical power of Buddha, get the love and esteem of everybody. Everybody sees she is outstanding and preeminent, encourage her to read Buddhist institute to Taiwan, study Buddhism further. She says: Be no good! Father says aged grandmother the body is violated and, need a person to take care of. For grandmother, she forgoed the opportunity that continues to take advanced courses, went 20 years, grandmother went serenely below her make much of, and she also close by the girl not of be puzzled year. 40 years old of life still are well worth doing, somebody persuades her to hold an opportunity to enrich his at once again, her falter: Parental explain, auntie age is old, need person serve. The 2nd degree waste time, went 10 years, she already 50 years old, step senile late boundary, that day flower gas evolution charm has disappeared, the aspiration of young times is ideal as years elapse and disappeared. The destiny of her lifetime commands next sacrifice in the directive of close affection. In our society, the talented person that how many has surrounded next meaningless ground to be buried in the family member’s warmth. Parents cherishs children, should let the child have his option power, go deciding oneself life way, is not skill director, leave helpless a matter of regret!
4, be about to counterpoise: The desire also is the terrible power that controls our destiny, we constant by libidinal place drawing, become libidinal slave. See others has car foreign house, promoted the idea of lust, oneself do not have ability to buy obviously, then by hook and crook, or theft, or fleece, or rob, not only oneself offend law, also bring a society uneasy peace. Emerge in endlessly on newspaper grab kill case, it is to be banged by the desire mostly the terrestrial tragic of be puzzled!
5, industry strength controls a destiny
The greatest power that controls our destiny is industry strength. So-called line of business, it is the result of our behavior, the place in including an opening says, the place in the heart thinks, body place does a variety of artificial, call meaning of the mouth that it is a body 3 course of study. A word says: In the end of good and evil has a cable eventually, contend for only come early with come late. Course of study can separate the course of study that it is be apt to, evil line of business, ourselves made trade of be apt to evil perhaps course of study, the opportunity matured, must get a reply as these industry strength, industry strength controls our destiny is a bit accurate. Although industry strength can control our destiny, but command industry force depend on ourselves however, if can improve oneself life, do not make evil trade, wide Zhi Shangen, our destiny is sure be bright evenness.
Course of study besides course of study of be apt to, evil course of study, still have a lot of sort. Affect an individual call fasten course of study, affect everybody call in all course of study. The person that for example grows in Taiwan has what be born in here jointly in all course of study, all living creatures that is Suo mother-in-law together has surely identical in all course of study, but some people live Asia, some people live America, even color of skin has yellow, white, brown, black etc, because fasten a variety of differ and arises differences of course of study,that is. Besides in all course of study, fasten course of study besides, course of study still can be divided to decide course of study and errant course of study, for example somebody rich and powerful family of one’s previous experience, life grows bitter fleabane door, zhao You of reincarnation Zhang Wangji does not get him, this gives birth to what industry strength already decided to decide course of study before the basis therefore, but destiny adventitious of future is errant course of study, the industry strength that prospective destiny is place of according to this life to build and decision, industry power is real to the consequence of our life very big.
Command the industry force of our destiny, how to go getting a reply? According to classical account, perhaps follow sign up for first again, namely as what weigh quite in all course of study gets a reply first; Perhaps get a reply as the habit; Or as recall strongly in the heart read aloud and get a reply. On time, some this life are done, this life gets a reply, some this life are done, newspaper of a future life, some a future life had been done a few give birth to a few worlds to get a reply again. Be just like a fruiter, some was planted result of a few years of ability, some was planted before long with respect to overgrow the fructification of again and again. Without giving thought to a year, 2 years and even several years, think of to eat melting fructification, be about to sow dependably. Same, we hope the fruit that has enjoyed signs up for, be about to because of,cultivate good job.